Former Neil McNeil teacher honoured for 50 years of service

When in Rome, do not get caught between nuns and the Pope. When you teach, listen.

Father Pat Fitzpatrick learned many lessons as a Spiritan priest and long-time teacher at Neil McNeil High School.

But one stands above all.

One day after class, a Grade 12 student hung back to tell Fitzpatrick he was leaving Neil McNeil for Birchmount Collegiate. He gave a few reasons, including co-ed classes. But he also gave Fitzpatrick what he now calls the best teaching lesson he has heard in one sentence: “You always seem to be looking a little bit over our heads, instead of into our eyes.”

“I went home and thought about that Friday night, Saturday, Sunday,” Fitzpatrick said. “You asked me about religion teaching. That’s where it starts.”

On May 5, Fitzpatrick won a special merit award for 50-plus years of service to Catholic students and teachers in Toronto.

Much has changed since 1964, when Fitzpatrick took a boat from his native Dublin to Liverpool, then another for the six-day North Atlantic crossing to Canada. (He landed in Quebec City on his 30th birthday).

This September marked the first time since its 1958 founding by the Spiritans that Neil McNeil has none of them working there.

The last to go was Father Obinna Ifeanyi, who grew up in Nigeria, where today there are more active Spiritans than in Ireland, where the order built several high schools, including Fitzpatrick’s own, or in France, where the Spiritans began some 300 years ago.

Unlike Fitzpatrick’s first few years at Neil McNeil, there are now female teachers on staff. It also has nearly double the 400 students it did in the 1960s and 1970s, and the Spiritans’ original north-end residence has become the John Candy Wing – a school extension named after the famous comedian and Neil McNeil graduate.

Things have also changed in the wider Roman Catholic Church.

After studying English and French at university, then teaching elementary classes for two training years in Ireland, Fitzpatrick was sent to Rome to study theology.

He was there when Pope John called the modernizing Second Vatican Council in the mid-1960s – a gathering of Catholic bishops that, among other things, allowed Catholic masses to be said in non-Latin languages.

Fitzpatrick remembers watching Pope John carried past him by Swiss guards during a huge mass at St. Peter’s. A group of nuns was pressing close behind him, anxious to see the Pope up close.

“I’m convinced that Pope John XXIII deliberately looked me in the eye when he was coming down,” he said, laughing. “I was being pushed from behind by the sisters, and I think that maybe he had pity on me.”

Today, Pope Francis is shedding that image of a leader poised above everyone, and has instead made headlines for reaching out to everyday people.

“I think it’s a very needed, down-to-earth contact with people,” Fitzpatrick said.

That attitude is not unlike the one he suggests priests should have when they visit Catholic schools.

One winter, he was speaking with a kindergarten teacher when the recess bell rang and her students trundled back inside.

“She said, ‘Well, now that the kids are here, would you like to say a prayer with them before you go?’”

Fitzpatrick said he’d never prayed with four and five year-olds, but he would try.

“I struggled my way through, in language I thought they would understand,” he said.

But after his ‘Amen,’ one student piped up, saying he knew a much better prayer.

Fitzpatrick swallowed and said, ‘Okay, could we hear your much better prayer?’

“For all that lies before us, thanks be to God,” came the reply.

It was likely just a table prayer, Fitzpatrick said, but he thought it was wonderful. He still uses it today.

“The simpler the better,” he said.

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I don’t have good memories of Neil McNeil. I attended the school in 1963-64 and was beaten, berated in front of my fellow students (as we all were). Nothing but traumatic experience. The priests were all horrible people. I went for only one year but it has had an indelible mark of negativity I shall never ever forget.

Michael while I feel bad for you if what you say is true….however, given my experience as a student who went there for 5 years back thru the 70’s. My experience was completely the opposite. The most incredible time of my life as fat as school goes. The priests were incredible. I find your claims so hard to believe given my experience….in fact o lean towards feeling you are exaggeratin your accounts. If not sorry to hear, but from experience an amazing school

I have no idea how I came to see your response in 2024. I am not casting any doubt about your experience so why do you doubt mine. I very happy that experienced utopia at Neil. I am not trying to make you believe me. Your comment provides me another opportunity to help someone else who suffered the same trauma as I. My observation was if you were involved in sports, you were treated very well. Maybe you were one of them. I would not have left that place if I was treated like a human instead of a “punching bag”. I was diagnosed with PTSD and I learned the mistreatment at Neil McNeil part of the cumulative trauma I experienced.

I recently learned that John Candy was in my class and I have no memory of any interaction with him although I have been told we joked around with each other… memory at all!

I attended a retreat in Hamilton many years ago and Fr. McCarthy was the retreat director. We had a very nice conversation in which he admitted the priests at Neil McNeal at that time were heavy-handed. He further apologized for the way they behaved.

Your opinion does not change the my truth.

Mike, good to hear indirectly from you. I was surprised not to see you the following year in grade 10. Please be in touch. My memories of you were positive, and I was unaware of your strong, negative feelings at that time.

Yes, you received the strap in front of assembly if you were on the blacklist.I know I was on the blacklist more then once. But Neil was the best of my schools years and I will never Forget the sixties because of it. Thank-You Fathers.I am still in touch with some of the friends I made at Neil to-day. YEA NEIL.

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